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Thursday, December 29, 2011
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Simon's Cat: Double Trouble
Me, being the cat-lover that I am found this to be hilarious. My dad actually showed it to me when I got home this break, he even liked it... and he is an avid cat-hater.
Simon's Cat is probably my new favorite website.
Or super close to first, behind Facebook.
Of which I'm WAY too adicted to.
That and Pintrest.
Sunday, December 18, 2011
I Got You
Melanie & Marko
I Got You- Leona Lewis
My favorite SYTYCD routine.
Supposedly the dance depicts him, after being dumped at the alter & her, the best friend, being there to help pick him up.
I get chills every time.
Friday, November 11, 2011
Love Letter
It has snowed
on this page
and there are tracks
as if a small
animal lost
in the white weather
in the cold battle
of breath
yours forms
the only cloud
on which I can rest
my head
-Linda Pastan
on this page
and there are tracks
as if a small
animal lost
in the white weather
in the cold battle
of breath
yours forms
the only cloud
on which I can rest
my head
-Linda Pastan
Monday, October 3, 2011
Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Successful Family Relationships
Last Spring I had to write an in-class essay for my English 201 class, and I just happened to stumble across it the other day. Needless to say, I'm quite proud of it. =) So I thought I'd share.
Prompt: Write a 500 word essay identifying and explaining the values you feel are necessary for successful family relationships. Clearly explain each value in detail with specific examples and justification for your choice.
Family. A word often meant to describe those you live and grew up with, but to me it means those I love and depend on. All throughout time, members of families bicker and fight with one another when they should be strengthening their relationships. This task is not, by any means, considered an easy one. one must obtain certain attributes in order to have a pleasant relationship with family members, the most important being: observation, a listening ear, ability to develop trust, and unconditional love.
"Why are these important?" You might ask. In order to explain, we must start from the beginning.
Observation. Being able to notice and see things around you for what they truly are. As family members you might share the same DNA, but you don't have the same mind. When people are hurt or angry they react in different ways; some shut down, some lash out, some are calm and rational. Family members should be observant in knowing when something is wrong. For example, through my teenage years, when I would get upset I would usually snap at or say a snide remark to one of my siblings then head off to be alone. My mother would notice this and realize I probably needed someone to talk to; she had the attribute of observation down to a science.
After observing that something is bothering a family member we must do as my mom did and have a listening ear. We need to be there for our family. Sometimes all a person needs is to be heard. Along with this, we need to realize that they might not need us to talk at all. Therefore, we need to be careful on not giving too much advice; unless they ask for it, of course.
After showing that we notice others feelings and are someone to confide in, they usually find that we are worthy of their trust. once given that trust we must do everything, in our power, to keep it. Trust is one of the toughest things do get back once it is lost. In order to keep trust we must avoid dishonesty and hypocrisy. When we say that we will do something, we should follow through. Show others that we care enough to keep our promises.
And lastly there is unconditional love. Having unconditional love for someone is loving them no matter what they do to hurt themselves, you, or others. This value is essential in family relationships and goes along with all the other values mentioned thus far. If a child decides to go wayward and live a life we might not agree with, their trust in our love might be the only thing that brings them back. We must have that undying love, that selfless love.
All of these attributes combined will ensure that we have successful relationships with our family members, which relationships are of the most important in our lives.
Prompt: Write a 500 word essay identifying and explaining the values you feel are necessary for successful family relationships. Clearly explain each value in detail with specific examples and justification for your choice.
Family. A word often meant to describe those you live and grew up with, but to me it means those I love and depend on. All throughout time, members of families bicker and fight with one another when they should be strengthening their relationships. This task is not, by any means, considered an easy one. one must obtain certain attributes in order to have a pleasant relationship with family members, the most important being: observation, a listening ear, ability to develop trust, and unconditional love.
"Why are these important?" You might ask. In order to explain, we must start from the beginning.
Observation. Being able to notice and see things around you for what they truly are. As family members you might share the same DNA, but you don't have the same mind. When people are hurt or angry they react in different ways; some shut down, some lash out, some are calm and rational. Family members should be observant in knowing when something is wrong. For example, through my teenage years, when I would get upset I would usually snap at or say a snide remark to one of my siblings then head off to be alone. My mother would notice this and realize I probably needed someone to talk to; she had the attribute of observation down to a science.
After observing that something is bothering a family member we must do as my mom did and have a listening ear. We need to be there for our family. Sometimes all a person needs is to be heard. Along with this, we need to realize that they might not need us to talk at all. Therefore, we need to be careful on not giving too much advice; unless they ask for it, of course.
After showing that we notice others feelings and are someone to confide in, they usually find that we are worthy of their trust. once given that trust we must do everything, in our power, to keep it. Trust is one of the toughest things do get back once it is lost. In order to keep trust we must avoid dishonesty and hypocrisy. When we say that we will do something, we should follow through. Show others that we care enough to keep our promises.
And lastly there is unconditional love. Having unconditional love for someone is loving them no matter what they do to hurt themselves, you, or others. This value is essential in family relationships and goes along with all the other values mentioned thus far. If a child decides to go wayward and live a life we might not agree with, their trust in our love might be the only thing that brings them back. We must have that undying love, that selfless love.
All of these attributes combined will ensure that we have successful relationships with our family members, which relationships are of the most important in our lives.
-McKae Bre'a
Tuesday, August 30, 2011
212 Degrees - The Extra Degree
My mom showed us this video last night for FHE (Family Home Evening). And, even though I had other plans, I'm glad she made me stay to at least watch this ;).
It makes me wonder what I'm missing out on in life when I don't go the extra mile.
"The one extra degree of effort in business and in life... separates the good from the great!"
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